Monday, April 23, 2012

Lose The Wait


Being real with God is much like working out - you always feel better afterwards; you never regret the time spent.

The experience of running an inquisitive, wildly honest hand along that cord between you and God - well, it changes things. 

And when you postpone or shelve it - when you tell yourself you're too busy for good abs or a forgiving heart - you suffer. 

From lethargy. From stifled emotions. From the heaviness - physical and emotional - of your own being. 

Its obscenely simple: if we regularly invest in ourselves and in what is vibrantly good to and for us, we flourish. There is no other outcome for those actions. 

That's kind of reassuring. 

Soooo...turn off the TV. Your iPod. Your to-do list. 

If you're at work, close your computer. Take a deep breath. 

Take a 10-minute walk. Don't take anyone with you.

Talk to God. 

Leave behind any formal language. Just talk to him like you would an old friend - the kind that will take you to the ER at 2am without complaint. 

Talk about what hurts and stinks and makes you crazy - and what is working. 
Let down your guard. 

Be open to whatever happens next. It could be adventure; it could be stillness. 

It will be just what you need. 

He carries that 'what you need' with Him all day and just waits for you to ask. 
Isn't that weird, in a way? All the power in the universe, yet He wants to connect. With you. With me. 

He loves us free of all the garbage and complication that human love contains. You don't have to temper, modify or sugar up your words. You can let go.

Not a bad Guy. Not a bad Guy. 

He's safe. 

And thus, so are you. 

Go for a walk. 

Love,
-Melinda

Photo Credit: Tamao Funahashi. http://www.flickr.com/photos/tamjpn/201448749/
Artwork: Yoshitomo Nara

10 comments:

  1. Hey Melinda, I enjoyed your blogpost today. You make talking to God sound so natural and easy. I love the imagery of God carrying around my own personally-prescribed 'what you need' each day, waiting for me to connect. I'm encouraged.. emboldened... I'm going to keep it real, and be transparent, and find a quiet enough space to hear Him. And if He says 'Hi' I'm just going to tell Him 'Yes'... to whatever it is I need today.

    Thanks. Inspiring!

    ReplyDelete
  2. Dear Reader, Kind One,

    Thanks a million for your wonderful, wonderfully generous feedback! So happy you enjoyed the post.

    Just felt inspired after reading a devotional this weekend, and the words poured out.

    Love,
    Melinda

    ReplyDelete
  3. Dear Melinda,

    You have such a lovely spirit. Warmth and love radiate from your words. Do keep inspiring us with your infectious joie de vivre!

    Love,
    SWJ

    ReplyDelete
  4. Melinda,

    What a spot on post! I had the pleasure of attending a workshop with Mark Yaconelli (http://markyaconelli.wordpress.com/) at Preston hollow Presbyterian this past weekend, and he echoed almost everything you mentioned here. One of our activities was to take a small jar of play-doh, wander off to a quiet little spot in the church, and play with the dough while asking ourselves what it is that we need. Sure enough, this simple act of playing with the play-doh allowed everyone to relax and really come away with a better sense of what it is they need in life. And it was amazing what people need: spiritual healing, simplicity, friendship, belonging, etc.. Very simple things that don't require a great fortune or a lifetime of effort to acquire. And all of those things God provides in abundance if we ask for them.

    Thank you again for saying it so clearly...can't hear it enough! :)

    Matt

    ReplyDelete
  5. Dear SWJ,

    Wow - what a lovely note! Thank you for reading Super Much Love, and for your most kind encouragement. YOU make a difference! : )

    Have a great week!

    Love,
    -Melinda

    ReplyDelete
  6. Dear Matt,

    I'm so glad you dug the post - and thank you for sharing Mark Yaconelli with me! I really, really like the Play-Doh idea. Wow.

    Your note was such a boost.

    Mil gracias! : )

    Love,
    -Melinda

    ReplyDelete
  7. Hi Melinda,

    You Shine!
    I love the recent blog!
    Your words are delightful,encouraging and inspiring. Thank you for allowing yourself to be the vessel. The spirit is working through you.

    :)
    Marsi

    ReplyDelete
  8. Dear Marsi,

    You're a love! : ) Thanks SO much for your wonderful note! Faith is a new topic for me to tackle on SML, and your feedback means a lot.

    Happy weekend!

    Love,
    -Melinda

    ReplyDelete
  9. lovely post...thank you for sharing.

    God Bless!

    erin

    ReplyDelete
  10. I like the title too. :) doesn't matter the weight of the burden, but only how long you carry it for...

    All my best,
    Erin

    ReplyDelete